The Fuckability Trap, Part 1

does it matter whether someone wants to fuck you?

Over the next week, I’ll be publishing a few short essay drafts of an incomplete project called The Fuckability Trap. I originally wrote these for my students, because in talking about them I frequently witnessed how much their lives were being molded and sometimes disfigured by their beliefs about the importance of their so-called “fuckability.”

What d…